October 16, 2021

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Hey Steve: Is This a Relationship? || STEVE HARVEY

Dating

(clapping) – Hey Steve! – [Steve] Hey. – So I met a guy on an online dating app in December, and we had a good first date. We went to church, we had breakfast together, but we ended up splitting the bill in half. Since then, we ended up meeting about four more times together in total. And my problem is, – [Steve] Who paid for that bill? – Huh? – When y’all meet the next four times, who paid for that bill? – We paid our own way. – [Steve] Okay. – So that’s my problem.

When we first met, he said that he was interested in looking for a relationship, and so was I. So, I don’t know, what do you think, Steve? Do you think that he only sees me as a friend, or do I be bold and as him, or just see how it plays out? – He said he was looking for a relationship. You said you was looking for a relationship. – Mhm. – There are some men that’s slower than others. There are some men that’s afraid of rejection. There are men who just take it easy.

How old is he? – 32. (audience groaning) – Now, I’m gonna tell you what did happen to him. Home boy been hurt. (audience mumbling) And hasn’t he told you that? – Yes, he has. – Yeah, see, he been hurt. Somebody stang him real bad. Now he might like you, but he don’t wanna set his self up for another stinging.

Somehow, you’re going to have to show him in your own way that you’re not in the hurting business. – Steve, but I don’t know how much time I have left. I am young, I’m celibate, and I’m ready for love, Steve. (audience laughing) – What, what, wait, say what now? (audience laughing) – I said I’m young, I’m celibate, and I’m ready for love.https://ghanalove.com/ So I don’t know how much time – You celibate? – I should give him. – I am, I am waiting. – Okay, so what’s wrong. Hell, you celibate. – [Woman] Right. – You still celibate. – [Woman] Yeah. – He ain’t ask you for nothing. – Right. – What, I’m confused. = [Woman] How? (audience laughing) – Because I’m waiting, so I’m saying because I’m waiting, until I marry to have intercourse with someone at this point, – [Steve] Okay. – And this guy, you know, he seems to be dealing with a lot of hurt, and you’re saying I should let him know that I’m not in the hurting business.

How long do I– – Okay, let me ask you something. Have y’all had this celibate conversation? – We have. – Guess what now? He playing it safe, so he don’t create a situation. – [Woman] Right. – You gotta understand. See, he ain’t been celibate. – [Woman] Mm. – He been hurt. – [Woman] Yeah. – So now, you done tole the man, you gonna be celibate, you gonna save yourself till you’re married, so he trying to figure out how long I can do this, (audience laughing) so I can stay with her, so I don’t ask her to break her celibacy.

The men ain’t complicated. We either this or we that. There ain’t no complication to us. All you women is complicated.

(clapping) – Hey Steve! – [Steve] Hey. – So I met a guy on an online dating app in December, and we had a good first date. We went to church, we had breakfast together, but we ended up splitting the bill in half. Since then, we ended up meeting about four more times together in total. And my problem is, – [Steve] Who paid for that bill? – Huh? – When y’all meet the next four times, who paid for that bill? – We paid our own way. – [Steve] Okay. – So that’s my problem.

Relationships

When we first met, he said that he was interested in looking for a relationship, and so was I. So, I don’t know, what do you think, Steve? Do you think that he only sees me as a friend, or do I be bold and as him, or just see how it plays out? – He said he was looking for a relationship. You said you was looking for a relationship. – Mhm. – There are some men that’s slower than others. There are some men that’s afraid of rejection. There are men who just take it easy.

How old is he? – 32. (audience groaning) – Now, I’m gonna tell you what did happen to him. Home boy been hurt. (audience mumbling) And hasn’t he told you that? – Yes, he has. – Yeah, see, he been hurt. Somebody stang him real bad. Now he might like you, but he don’t wanna set his self up for another stinging.

Somehow, you’re going to have to show him in your own way that you’re not in the hurting business. – Steve, but I don’t know how much time I have left. I am young, I’m celibate, and I’m ready for love, Steve. (audience laughing) – What, what, wait, say what now? (audience laughing) – I said I’m young, I’m celibate, and I’m ready for love. So I don’t know how much time – You celibate? – I should give him. – I am, I am waiting. – Okay, so what’s wrong. Hell, you celibate. – [Woman] Right. – You still celibate. – [Woman] Yeah. – He ain’t ask you for nothing. – Right. – What, I’m confused. = [Woman] How? (audience laughing) – Because I’m waiting, so I’m saying because I’m waiting, until I marry to have intercourse with someone at this point, – [Steve] Okay. – And this guy, you know, he seems to be dealing with a lot of hurt, and you’re saying I should let him know that I’m not in the hurting business.

How long do I– – Okay, let me ask you something. Have y’all had this celibate conversation? – We have. – Guess what now? He playing it safe, so he don’t create a situation. – [Woman] Right. – You gotta understand. See, he ain’t been celibate. – [Woman] Mm. – He been hurt. – [Woman] Yeah. – So now, you done tole the man, you gonna be celibate, you gonna save yourself till you’re married, so he trying to figure out how long I can do this, (audience laughing) so I can stay with her, so I don’t ask her to break her celibacy.

The men ain’t complicated. We either this or we that. There ain’t no complication to us. All you women is complicated.

You know what makes us complcated to y’all? ‘Cause y’all keep hoping we gonna be like you one day. You think if you communicate, he oughta communicate. If he live, you love him, and nurture him, he oughta love and nurture you. I don’t know who told you that, (audience laughing) but that’s not how this workds. (audience clapping) I’m sorry, it’s not. (audience clapping) – Well how do I let him know I’m not trying to hurt him?

How do you have a conversation like that? – Have you told him that? – I have. – [Steve] And what did he say? – He doesn’t believe me. – Let me ask you something. The one thing about women is you all have some magnificent qualities. – [Woman] Mhm. – You can’t think of no way to convince him? (audience cheering) (laughing) (audience laughing and clapping) – I could probably think of a few ways. – I could probably – [Steve] Uh-huh. think of a few ways. – Well if I was you, I’d get to thinking over there. (laughing) (audience clapping) Let your shirt say amen. – [Audience Members] Amen! – [Steven] Amen again. – [Audience Members] Amen! – We’ll be right back. (audience cheering and clapping) (upbeat music) Hey, you made it to the end of this video. I got a lot more that you’re gonna enjoy, so just click to watch the next one.

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