JT: Hey guys. JT Tran here, and today I have a really special and great guest, Beckster. So, Beckster has some particular specialties, but before I go into that and what he’s an expert of, how about you tell our audience that might not know you that well as I do, a little bit about your background. Beckster: Okay. I think I’m a bit of a veteran, old man in this game.
I started in 1997. I think that’s like 17 years in the game. I should quit at 20, and yeah, I got into it a long time ago.
Someone handed me a Ross Jeffries newsletter, actually, and I started reading that. It’s quite day-game based, and I wanted to experiment in the night. I’m known quite a lot for my night- game, as well as my day-game, being quite high-energy, VIP clubs, high-end bars- JT: Yeah, places that I love to go to, quite frankly.
Beckster: Yeah, Yeah, so I needed to experiment in them places, so I came up with my own sort of methods for doing it, and then a long way down the line, the book, The Game, came out, and I was like, “Oh my God, everyone’s going to know about this stuff.” It started getting me friends who wanted to pay to be students, and I was like, “Wow, I never thought of it this way. This is cool. Maybe I should help people.” I worked for various famous companies as the head instructor and then thought, “You know what, I’m going to do it myself, so I can just teach my own method,” and so- JT: Yeah because you teach out here in both London as well as the states, right? Beckster: I teach everywhere.https://www.youdate.net/
JT: Right. Beckster: All over. I do joint boot camps with people that I like and I like the style- JT: Absolutely. Beckster: And some people want to mix stuff together. JT: Yeah, like I’ve known Beckster for a couple of years.
He’s a great guy. Now a little bird, however, told me that one of your specialties is a rare find like very sought-after skillset, which is threesomes. Beckster: Right. Okay. JT: So, what can you tell our audience that are wanting, or fantasizing about having a threesome, but don’t know where to start?
How would you go about telling someone that? Beckster: Well, there’s many routes to go down, and there’s also many avenues of threesomes, so I knew like, man, girl, girl. JT: Yes.
No crossing swords. I agree with that one. Beckster: So, there’s that.
There’s threesomes. There’s actually foursomes, and moresomes, when you get into that. A bit of a thing that’s really hard to do.
It’s not as quite logical, and a lot of the time it’s about your belief to get in one anyway. So, when I was 29, I was like hell-bent on getting threesomes. I’d never had one. I was like, “I want one. I want one.
I want one so badly.” JT: It’s a dream of every guy, right? Beckster: Yeah, so I could get same-night ladies quite easily, and I was just like, “What’s the next step? What’s the next step?” So, I wouldn’t let myself get laid.
I would always, any two-set or bigger set, I’d always try to say, “Wait. It’s all or nothing. All in or nothing.” JT: Yeah, the delayed gratification. Beckster: Yeah, and your mind, like necessity is the mother of all invention, right? JT: Yeah.
Beckster: My mind came up with a way to do it. It was just like, “You’re not getting me laid.” So, the only way to do it is invent something somehow to do it. So, on my 30th birthday, fondly enough, that’s a great present, it happened. JT: Nice.
Beckster: At the time, I was, this is one avenue with threesomes. One is do it with a girl who is bi or bicurious. JT: Yes.
Uh huh. Beckster: And I call that the cheat way. There is a hard way.
JT: The efficient way. Beckster: Yeah, it’s a lot easier. So, she was like, “Well, it’s your 30th birthday.
If you want a threesome, I’m going to give you one, but you’ve got a minute to do it. We’re leaving the club, [INAUDIBLE], at the time, so that was fine. And I was like, “One minute? This is insane.” JT: Wow. Do or die.
Beckster: Yeah, do or die, so I ran around the corner, just open this Swedish girl, blah, blah, blah, quick escalation, got on by-on temperature, led her straight to the girl. It was a DHV for me because my girlfriend was super-hot, and she was just like, “Yep, yep, yep, yep, okay.” Cab rolled right up outside the club, in, in. She didn’t have time to think either, so circuits were scrambled.
JT: Yes. Beckster: Bang, back to ours. We made her feel comfortable in the cab. We built rapport. We got back.
We had a drink. We just didn’t jump on her. JT: Yeah.
Beckster: And we did certain things, and slowly like give her a massage, so on, have fun, dance around, slowly strip a bit and then eventually, it just happened naturally, but the thing that I found amazing was, because now my brain believes I can do it, three days later, I’ve got another one. JT: Nice. Beckster: It’s a matter of believing you can do it, and if you have 100% conviction and confidence in what you do, I think you can pull off most things.
JT: Yeah. I think that’s true of everything. It’s always climbing that hill for the first time, that mountain for the first time. So, it sounds like, obviously, you went in, you scrambled her circuits, like a lot of BT, a lot of sexual escalation, but then once you extracted her, once you moved her to the next venue, which was your home, there was a lot comfort, getting her comfortable around you.
Beckster: Yeah, comfort was mainly in the car, building rapport and whatnot, but when we got back, there was still a bit of comfort, but we had to sexualize it a lot because otherwise it would have just been, “Oh, we’re friends having a drink and a house party.” And there’s a lot of times I’ve been to house parties, or had house parties, and the guys in there that come along because obviously we try and make it more girls than guys, but the guys that come along, they’re there just building rapport all the time. I’m like, “No. This is when you start to get sexual. You should have done the rapport on the way.” JT: Oh, okay. Beckster: So, you snag them at by-on temperature and attraction, build rapport on the way home, a little bit when you get in, you just done want to jump them, and then slowly escalate sexually as you’re going along.
That’s the best way to- JT: Nice. Nice. No, the only ones I’ve had have been through the cheating way, which I had the bisexual girlfriend. Beckster: It’s still hard to do if you’ve never done it.
Once you’ve done it, you’re like, “Ah, I know what to do. I know the codes.” JT: Cool. Awesome. Beckster: Of course, if you want to do that with two girls, there’s certain things you say.
You’re building rapport, but you’re whispering in one or the other one’s ear, when the other one goes to the toilet, doing the same thing, then I try and do like routines or something to spike it up. One I use is, “It’s really weird, at school girls would always practice kissing, but boys would never do it because it would be really weird, strange.” JT: Right. Beckster: “But you two don’t look dare enough to do it.” “Oh, yeah, we’ve done it.” “Oh yeah, prove it.
Go on then.” You three-way, bang, and so on. JT: Very nice. Very nice.
That’s some really good stuff. Beckster: We’ve always had big in common. JT: Very cool, love that. I love that. I know you guys have too.
Now, I heard that you’ve got something pretty big coming along. You work with a lot of other companies, like some of the really big names, some of like the celebrity, like pick up artists and dating coaches. Why don’t you tell our audience here if you can give them a sneak preview of what kind of collaboration you have coming up? Beckster: Well, what I’m doing is I’m doing a product, and it’s basically combining natural game with pick-up skills in the right method, in the right way of doing it.
People just think, “Well, I’ll be a bit natural here. I’ll use some routines here.” That’s not the way to do it. There’s ways to do it and times to do it.
In a way, you could call it supernatural game or- JT: Supernatural. I like that. Beckster: Yeah because it combines everything together. This is a route a lot of great pick up artists use.
So, they get really good at pick-up skills and they get to the best that they can get practically obviously we’re always improving. JT: Uh huh. Right. Right. Beckster: But you get to that point where you’re only going up point- JT: Incremental, yeah.
Beckster: And then I got asked to go to promote in VIP clubs because I’d always go to clubs with more girls. They said, “Come in. You’ll get paid.
You’ll have a free table. You can do whatever you want in the club.” So, I was like, “Great,” but then there was the new breed of naturals, all these promoters that were just naturally good with women. So, I had a new challenge.
So, I modeled myself on bits of them, I came up with my own stuff, and I sort of mastered that side of things as well, but I was like, they were both equal. You couldn’t beat, the top naturals would be as good as the top PUAs. There was no difference. They would get the same amount of women, or the same women. So, I started to try and entwine it all together.
JT: Take the best of both worlds. Beckster: Yeah, but mix it in the right way. There’s times and ways of doing stuff in a certain way, and my results went out the roof, man. JT: Yeah? Beckster: It was like, “Wow.
The secret codes have just come crashing in.” JT: Nice. Beckster: I was like, “Took me long enough. It’s been like 10 years.” So, I spoke to a lot of, as you call, famous pick up artists about it, and Mystery was really interested in coming and seeing it.
JT: Yeah. Beckster: Because what we do is I took a couple of students away and showed the method there. We went to a new city. We didn’t know anyone, and within one day, we had 50 people in the house party back, had all hot girls. A couple of guys had to straggle along.
JT: Right. Right. Beckster: We couldn‘t just have all women. It would look weird, and we’re filming it all. We’ve got it all on film.
It’s amazing, and next night, we invite some of them, got new ones, did a day-game, we went to a model convention, and so on. We brought 80 girls back to a bar that we hired, which bar/club, and we had The Art of Seduction slashed on the wall in a spray, just for fun, and then I spoke to the camera about how I did this and what I taught the guys, and so I broke it all down so people could learn it and, I suppose, homework for them. JT: Got ya. Beckster: And Mystery said, “Yeah, I would love to break down a few of the in-fields that your students were doing.” So, yeah, he came and stayed for a week, and we did that. It was great fun.
JT: Okay. That sounds pretty exciting. Beckster: So, he’s the bonus, I suppose of it all. JT: No, that sounds really exciting, so you will have that coming up.
JT: Hey guys. JT Tran here, and today I have a really special and great guest, Beckster. So, Beckster has some particular specialties, but before I go into that and what he’s an expert of, how about you tell our audience that might not know you that well as I do, a little bit about your background. Beckster: Okay. I think I’m a bit of a veteran, old man in this game.
I started in 1997. I think that’s like 17 years in the game. I should quit at 20, and yeah, I got into it a long time ago.
Someone handed me a Ross Jeffries newsletter, actually, and I started reading that. It’s quite day-game based, and I wanted to experiment in the night. I’m known quite a lot for my night- game, as well as my day-game, being quite high-energy, VIP clubs, high-end bars- JT: Yeah, places that I love to go to, quite frankly.
Beckster: Yeah, Yeah, so I needed to experiment in them places, so I came up with my own sort of methods for doing it, and then a long way down the line, the book, The Game, came out, and I was like, “Oh my God, everyone’s going to know about this stuff.” It started getting me friends who wanted to pay to be students, and I was like, “Wow, I never thought of it this way. This is cool. Maybe I should help people.” I worked for various famous companies as the head instructor and then thought, “You know what, I’m going to do it myself, so I can just teach my own method,” and so- JT: Yeah because you teach out here in both London as well as the states, right? Beckster: I teach everywhere.
JT: Right. Beckster: All over. I do joint boot camps with people that I like and I like the style- JT: Absolutely. Beckster: And some people want to mix stuff together. JT: Yeah, like I’ve known Beckster for a couple of years.
He’s a great guy. Now a little bird, however, told me that one of your specialties is a rare find like very sought-after skillset, which is threesomes. Beckster: Right. Okay. JT: So, what can you tell our audience that are wanting, or fantasizing about having a threesome, but don’t know where to start?
How would you go about telling someone that? Beckster: Well, there’s many routes to go down, and there’s also many avenues of threesomes, so I knew like, man, girl, girl. JT: Yes.
No crossing swords. I agree with that one. Beckster: So, there’s that.
There’s threesomes. There’s actually foursomes, and moresomes, when you get into that. A bit of a thing that’s really hard to do.
It’s not as quite logical, and a lot of the time it’s about your belief to get in one anyway. So, when I was 29, I was like hell-bent on getting threesomes. I’d never had one. I was like, “I want one. I want one.
I want one so badly.” JT: It’s a dream of every guy, right? Beckster: Yeah, so I could get same-night ladies quite easily, and I was just like, “What’s the next step? What’s the next step?” So, I wouldn’t let myself get laid.
I would always, any two-set or bigger set, I’d always try to say, “Wait. It’s all or nothing. All in or nothing.” JT: Yeah, the delayed gratification. Beckster: Yeah, and your mind, like necessity is the mother of all invention, right? JT: Yeah.
Beckster: My mind came up with a way to do it. It was just like, “You’re not getting me laid.” So, the only way to do it is invent something somehow to do it. So, on my 30th birthday, fondly enough, that’s a great present, it happened. JT: Nice.
Beckster: At the time, I was, this is one avenue with threesomes. One is do it with a girl who is bi or bicurious. JT: Yes.
Uh huh. Beckster: And I call that the cheat way. There is a hard way.
JT: The efficient way. Beckster: Yeah, it’s a lot easier. So, she was like, “Well, it’s your 30th birthday.
If you want a threesome, I’m going to give you one, but you’ve got a minute to do it. We’re leaving the club, [INAUDIBLE], at the time, so that was fine. And I was like, “One minute? This is insane.” JT: Wow. Do or die.
Beckster: Yeah, do or die, so I ran around the corner, just open this Swedish girl, blah, blah, blah, quick escalation, got on by-on temperature, led her straight to the girl. It was a DHV for me because my girlfriend was super-hot, and she was just like, “Yep, yep, yep, yep, okay.” Cab rolled right up outside the club, in, in. She didn’t have time to think either, so circuits were scrambled.
JT: Yes. Beckster: Bang, back to ours. We made her feel comfortable in the cab. We built rapport. We got back.
We had a drink. We just didn’t jump on her. JT: Yeah.
Beckster: And we did certain things, and slowly like give her a massage, so on, have fun, dance around, slowly strip a bit and then eventually, it just happened naturally, but the thing that I found amazing was, because now my brain believes I can do it, three days later, I’ve got another one. JT: Nice. Beckster: It’s a matter of believing you can do it, and if you have 100% conviction and confidence in what you do, I think you can pull off most things.
JT: Yeah. I think that’s true of everything. It’s always climbing that hill for the first time, that mountain for the first time. So, it sounds like, obviously, you went in, you scrambled her circuits, like a lot of BT, a lot of sexual escalation, but then once you extracted her, once you moved her to the next venue, which was your home, there was a lot comfort, getting her comfortable around you.
Beckster: Yeah, comfort was mainly in the car, building rapport and whatnot, but when we got back, there was still a bit of comfort, but we had to sexualize it a lot because otherwise it would have just been, “Oh, we’re friends having a drink and a house party.” And there’s a lot of times I’ve been to house parties, or had house parties, and the guys in there that come along because obviously we try and make it more girls than guys, but the guys that come along, they’re there just building rapport all the time. I’m like, “No. This is when you start to get sexual. You should have done the rapport on the way.” JT: Oh, okay. Beckster: So, you snag them at by-on temperature and attraction, build rapport on the way home, a little bit when you get in, you just done want to jump them, and then slowly escalate sexually as you’re going along.
That’s the best way to- JT: Nice. Nice. No, the only ones I’ve had have been through the cheating way, which I had the bisexual girlfriend. Beckster: It’s still hard to do if you’ve never done it.
Once you’ve done it, you’re like, “Ah, I know what to do. I know the codes.” JT: Cool. Awesome. Beckster: Of course, if you want to do that with two girls, there’s certain things you say.
You’re building rapport, but you’re whispering in one or the other one’s ear, when the other one goes to the toilet, doing the same thing, then I try and do like routines or something to spike it up. One I use is, “It’s really weird, at school girls would always practice kissing, but boys would never do it because it would be really weird, strange.” JT: Right. Beckster: “But you two don’t look dare enough to do it.” “Oh, yeah, we’ve done it.” “Oh yeah, prove it.
Go on then.” You three-way, bang, and so on. JT: Very nice. Very nice.
That’s some really good stuff. Beckster: We’ve always had big in common. JT: Very cool, love that. I love that. I know you guys have too.
Now, I heard that you’ve got something pretty big coming along. You work with a lot of other companies, like some of the really big names, some of like the celebrity, like pick up artists and dating coaches. Why don’t you tell our audience here if you can give them a sneak preview of what kind of collaboration you have coming up? Beckster: Well, what I’m doing is I’m doing a product, and it’s basically combining natural game with pick-up skills in the right method, in the right way of doing it.
People just think, “Well, I’ll be a bit natural here. I’ll use some routines here.” That’s not the way to do it. There’s ways to do it and times to do it.
In a way, you could call it supernatural game or- JT: Supernatural. I like that. Beckster: Yeah because it combines everything together. This is a route a lot of great pick up artists use.
So, they get really good at pick-up skills and they get to the best that they can get practically obviously we’re always improving. JT: Uh huh. Right. Right. Beckster: But you get to that point where you’re only going up point- JT: Incremental, yeah.
Beckster: And then I got asked to go to promote in VIP clubs because I’d always go to clubs with more girls. They said, “Come in. You’ll get paid.
You’ll have a free table. You can do whatever you want in the club.” So, I was like, “Great,” but then there was the new breed of naturals, all these promoters that were just naturally good with women. So, I had a new challenge.
So, I modeled myself on bits of them, I came up with my own stuff, and I sort of mastered that side of things as well, but I was like, they were both equal. You couldn’t beat, the top naturals would be as good as the top PUAs. There was no difference. They would get the same amount of women, or the same women. So, I started to try and entwine it all together.
JT: Take the best of both worlds. Beckster: Yeah, but mix it in the right way. There’s times and ways of doing stuff in a certain way, and my results went out the roof, man. JT: Yeah? Beckster: It was like, “Wow.
The secret codes have just come crashing in.” JT: Nice. Beckster: I was like, “Took me long enough. It’s been like 10 years.” So, I spoke to a lot of, as you call, famous pick up artists about it, and Mystery was really interested in coming and seeing it.
JT: Yeah. Beckster: Because what we do is I took a couple of students away and showed the method there. We went to a new city. We didn’t know anyone, and within one day, we had 50 people in the house party back, had all hot girls. A couple of guys had to straggle along.
JT: Right. Right. Beckster: We couldn’t just have all women. It would look weird, and we’re filming it all. We’ve got it all on film.
It’s amazing, and next night, we invite some of them, got new ones, did a day-game, we went to a model convention, and so on. We brought 80 girls back to a bar that we hired, which bar/club, and we had The Art of Seduction slashed on the wall in a spray, just for fun, and then I spoke to the camera about how I did this and what I taught the guys, and so I broke it all down so people could learn it and, I suppose, homework for them. JT: Got ya. Beckster: And Mystery said, “Yeah, I would love to break down a few of the in-fields that your students were doing.” So, yeah, he came and stayed for a week, and we did that. It was great fun.
JT: Okay. That sounds pretty exciting. Beckster: So, he’s the bonus, I suppose of it all. JT: No, that sounds really exciting, so you will have that coming up.
Now, we’ll talk about that a little bit. Now, with the students that you had in-field and teaching them, what’s a common obstacle, or challenge, that your students might face and that you helped them? Beckster: Well, the first one they always face is approach anxiety. It happens to the best of us at certain times.
So, I teach to eliminate that using different processes. Some might be NOP, but you have to calibrate to the client. JT: Obviously. Beckster: So, yeah.
If someone‘s like, some you can drill-sergeant, “Right. Get in there and do it.” Some you have to- JT: A little bit of subtlety. Beckster: -slowly, yeah, NOP, build up their confidence, build up their congruency, calibration, and courage.
So, you’ve got to build on all them things and help them do it. Then, the next stage would be that, you also get a lot of students that go in and do really well and then they just walk away from set, and you’re like, “Why’d you just walk away?” “Well, she was all happy and so I didn’t want to ruin it.” “You did ruin it. You walked away.” Or, they don’t ask for the number.
They’re like, “Beckster, I didn’t get her number.” “Well, did you ask for one?” “No.” Well, there you go. That’s your answer. JT: I guess it’s as Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100% of the shots that you don’t take.” So- Beckster: ABC, Always Be Closing.
JT: Yeah, yeah, so whatever it is, you’ve got to try. If you don’t try, nothing’s going to happen. So, this has been really great stuff. I love it.
I know you guys have loved it, the things that what Beckster’s an expert at that you can check out his material, including your new product that’s coming out. How can our audience find more about you, Beckster? Beckster: Just keep checking my website, really. JT: What is your website? I’ll put it in the description, but tell our audience what your website is.
Beckster: The Beckster Lifestyle. B-E-C-K-S-T-E-R. The Beckster Lifestyle. JT: So, check it out.
We’ll put it in the description. Check it out guys. Thank you so much, Beck. Beckster: Been a pleasure, as always.
I’ll see you soon. Take care. Bye.
JT: Bye guys.
Beckster Lifestyle Interview: How To Get A Threesome With Your Bisexual Girlfriend
JT: Hey guys. JT Tran here, and today I have a really special and great guest, Beckster. So, Beckster has some particular specialties, but before I go into that and what he’s an expert of, how about you tell our audience that might not know you that well as I do, a little bit about your background.
Beckster: Okay. I think I’m a bit of a veteran, old man in this game. I started in 1997.
I think that’s like 17 years in the game. I should quit at 20, and yeah, I got into it a long time ago. Someone handed me a Ross Jeffries newsletter, actually, and I started reading that. It’s quite day-game based, and I wanted to experiment in the night.
I’m known quite a lot for my night- game, as well as my day-game, being quite high-energy, VIP clubs, high-end bars- JT: Yeah, places that I love to go to, quite frankly. Beckster: Yeah, Yeah, so I needed to experiment in them places, so I came up with my own sort of methods for doing it, and then a long way down the line, the book, The Game, came out, and I was like, “Oh my God, everyone’s going to know about this stuff.” It started getting me friends who wanted to pay to be students, and I was like, “Wow, I never thought of it this way. This is cool.
Maybe I should help people.” I worked for various famous companies as the head instructor and then thought, “You know what, I’m going to do it myself, so I can just teach my own method,” and so- JT: Yeah because you teach out here in both London as well as the states, right? Beckster: I teach everywhere. JT: Right. Beckster: All over. I do joint boot camps with people that I like and I like the style- JT: Absolutely.
Beckster: And some people want to mix stuff together. JT: Yeah, like I’ve known Beckster for a couple of years. He’s a great guy. Now a little bird, however, told me that one of your specialties is a rare find like very sought-after skillset, which is threesomes.
Beckster: Right. Okay. JT: So, what can you tell our audience that are wanting, or fantasizing about having a threesome, but don’t know where to start?
How would you go about telling someone that? Beckster: Well, there’s many routes to go down, and there’s also many avenues of threesomes, so I knew like, man, girl, girl. JT: Yes.
No crossing swords. I agree with that one. Beckster: So, there’s that. There’s threesomes.
There’s actually foursomes, and moresomes, when you get into that. A bit of a thing that’s really hard to do. It’s not as quite logical, and a lot of the time it’s about your belief to get in one anyway. So, when I was 29, I was like hell-bent on getting threesomes. I’d never had one.
I was like, “I want one. I want one. I want one so badly.” JT: It’s a dream of every guy, right?
Beckster: Yeah, so I could get same-night ladies quite easily, and I was just like, “What’s the next step? What’s the next step?” So, I wouldn’t let myself get laid. I would always, any two-set or bigger set, I’d always try to say, “Wait. It’s all or nothing.
All in or nothing.” JT: Yeah, the delayed gratification. Beckster: Yeah, and your mind, like necessity is the mother of all invention, right? JT: Yeah. Beckster: My mind came up with a way to do it. It was just like, “You’re not getting me laid.” So, the only way to do it is invent something somehow to do it.
So, on my 30th birthday, fondly enough, that’s a great present, it happened. JT: Nice. Beckster: At the time, I was, this is one avenue with threesomes.
One is do it with a girl who is bi or bicurious. JT: Yes. Uh huh.
Beckster: And I call that the cheat way. There is a hard way. JT: The efficient way.
Beckster: Yeah, it’s a lot easier. So, she was like, “Well, it’s your 30th birthday. If you want a threesome, I’m going to give you one, but you’ve got a minute to do it. We’re leaving the club, [INAUDIBLE], at the time, so that was fine.
And I was like, “One minute? This is insane.” JT: Wow. Do or die.
Beckster: Yeah, do or die, so I ran around the corner, just open this Swedish girl, blah, blah, blah, quick escalation, got on by-on temperature, led her straight to the girl. It was a DHV for me because my girlfriend was super-hot, and she was just like, “Yep, yep, yep, yep, okay.” Cab rolled right up outside the club, in, in. She didn’t have time to think either, so circuits were scrambled.
JT: Yes. Beckster: Bang, back to ours. We made her feel comfortable in the cab. We built rapport.
We got back. We had a drink. We just didn’t jump on her. JT: Yeah. Beckster: And we did certain things, and slowly like give her a massage, so on, have fun, dance around, slowly strip a bit and then eventually, it just happened naturally, but the thing that I found amazing was, because now my brain believes I can do it, three days later, I’ve got another one.
JT: Nice. Beckster: It’s a matter of believing you can do it, and if you have 100% conviction and confidence in what you do, I think you can pull off most things. JT: Yeah. I think that’s true of everything.
It’s always climbing that hill for the first time, that mountain for the first time. So, it sounds like, obviously, you went in, you scrambled her circuits, like a lot of BT, a lot of sexual escalation, but then once you extracted her, once you moved her to the next venue, which was your home, there was a lot comfort, getting her comfortable around you. Beckster: Yeah, comfort was mainly in the car, building rapport and whatnot, but when we got back, there was still a bit of comfort, but we had to sexualize it a lot because otherwise it would have just been, “Oh, we’re friends having a drink and a house party.” And there’s a lot of times I’ve been to house parties, or had house parties, and the guys in there that come along because obviously we try and make it more girls than guys, but the guys that come along, they’re there just building rapport all the time.
I’m like, “No. This is when you start to get sexual. You should have done the rapport on the way.” JT: Oh, okay. Beckster: So, you snag them at by-on temperature and attraction, build rapport on the way home, a little bit when you get in, you just done want to jump them, and then slowly escalate sexually as you’re going along. That’s the best way to- JT: Nice.
Nice. No, the only ones I’ve had have been through the cheating way, which I had the bisexual girlfriend. Beckster: It’s still hard to do if you’ve never done it. Once you’ve done it, you’re like, “Ah, I know what to do. I know the codes.” JT: Cool.
Awesome. Beckster: Of course, if you want to do that with two girls, there’s certain things you say. You’re building rapport, but you’re whispering in one or the other one’s ear, when the other one goes to the toilet, doing the same thing, then I try and do like routines or something to spike it up.
One I use is, “It’s really weird, at school girls would always practice kissing, but boys would never do it because it would be really weird, strange.” JT: Right. Beckster: “But you two don’t look dare enough to do it.” “Oh, yeah, we’ve done it.” “Oh yeah, prove it. Go on then.” You three-way, bang, and so on. JT: Very nice.
Very nice. That’s some really good stuff. Beckster: We’ve always had big in common.
JT: Very cool, love that. I love that. I know you guys have too. Now, I heard that you’ve got something pretty big coming along.
You work with a lot of other companies, like some of the really big names, some of like the celebrity, like pick up artists and dating coaches. Why don’t you tell our audience here if you can give them a sneak preview of what kind of collaboration you have coming up? Beckster: Well, what I’m doing is I’m doing a product, and it’s basically combining natural game with pick-up skills in the right method, in the right way of doing it. People just think, “Well, I’ll be a bit natural here.
I’ll use some routines here.” That’s not the way to do it. There’s ways to do it and times to do it. In a way, you could call it supernatural game or- JT: Supernatural.
I like that. Beckster: Yeah because it combines everything together. This is a route a lot of great pick up artists use. So, they get really good at pick-up skills and they get to the best that they can get practically obviously we’re always improving.
JT: Uh huh. Right. Right. Beckster: But you get to that point where you’re only going up point- JT: Incremental, yeah. Beckster: And then I got asked to go to promote in VIP clubs because I’d always go to clubs with more girls.
They said, “Come in. You’ll get paid. You’ll have a free table. You can do whatever you want in the club.” So, I was like, “Great,” but then there was the new breed of naturals, all these promoters that were just naturally good with women.
So, I had a new challenge. So, I modeled myself on bits of them, I came up with my own stuff, and I sort of mastered that side of things as well, but I was like, they were both equal. You couldn’t beat, the top naturals would be as good as the top PUAs. There was no difference. They would get the same amount of women, or the same women.
So, I started to try and entwine it all together. JT: Take the best of both worlds. Beckster: Yeah, but mix it in the right way. There’s times and ways of doing stuff in a certain way, and my results went out the roof, man.
JT: Yeah? Beckster: It was like, “Wow. The secret codes have just come crashing in.” JT: Nice.
Beckster: I was like, “Took me long enough. It’s been like 10 years.” So, I spoke to a lot of, as you call, famous pick up artists about it, and Mystery was really interested in coming and seeing it. JT: Yeah. Beckster: Because what we do is I took a couple of students away and showed the method there.
We went to a new city. We didn’t know anyone, and within one day, we had 50 people in the house party back, had all hot girls. A couple of guys had to straggle along. JT: Right.
Right. Beckster: We couldn’t just have all women. It would look weird, and we’re filming it all. We’ve got it all on film.
It’s amazing, and next night, we invite some of them, got new ones, did a day-game, we went to a model convention, and so on. We brought 80 girls back to a bar that we hired, which bar/club, and we had The Art of Seduction slashed on the wall in a spray, just for fun, and then I spoke to the camera about how I did this and what I taught the guys, and so I broke it all down so people could learn it and, I suppose, homework for them. JT: Got ya.
Beckster: And Mystery said, “Yeah, I would love to break down a few of the in-fields that your students were doing.” So, yeah, he came and stayed for a week, and we did that. It was great fun. JT: Okay. That sounds pretty exciting. Beckster: So, he’s the bonus, I suppose of it all.
JT: No, that sounds really exciting, so you will have that coming up. Now, we’ll talk about that a little bit. Now, with the students that you had in-field and teaching them, what’s a common obstacle, or challenge, that your students might face and that you helped them? Beckster: Well, the first one they always face is approach anxiety.
It happens to the best of us at certain times. So, I teach to eliminate that using different processes. Some might be NOP, but you have to calibrate to the client. JT: Obviously. Beckster: So, yeah.
If someone’s like, some you can drill-sergeant, “Right. Get in there and do it.” Some you have to- JT: A little bit of subtlety. Beckster: -slowly, yeah, NOP, build up their confidence, build up their congruency, calibration, and courage.
So, you’ve got to build on all them things and help them do it. Then, the next stage would be that, you also get a lot of students that go in and do really well and then they just walk away from set, and you’re like, “Why’d you just walk away?” “Well, she was all happy and so I didn’t want to ruin it.” “You did ruin it. You walked away.” Or, they don’t ask for the number.
They’re like, “Beckster, I didn’t get her number.” “Well, did you ask for one?” “No.” Well, there you go. That’s your answer. JT: I guess it’s as Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100% of the shots that you don’t take.” So- Beckster: ABC, Always Be Closing.
JT: Yeah, yeah, so whatever it is, you’ve got to try. If you don’t try, nothing’s going to happen. So, this has been really great stuff. I love it.
I know you guys have loved it, the things that what Beckster’s an expert at that you can check out his material, including your new product that’s coming out. How can our audience find more about you, Beckster? Beckster: Just keep checking my website, really.
JT: What is your website? I’ll put it in the description, but tell our audience what your website is. Beckster: The Beckster Lifestyle.
B-E-C-K-S-T-E-R. The Beckster Lifestyle. JT: So, check it out. We’ll put it in the description. Check it out guys.
Thank you so much, Beck. Beckster: Been a pleasure, as always. I’ll see you soon. Take care. Bye.
JT: Bye guys.
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